Open Windows 101

The way I see it, life is much like looking into many open windows. Looking through these open windows can enable us much growth. Staying open to the world as we gaze into it's magic brings the world into clearer focus. Many times we are baffled by how others behave. Baffled for as many reasons as there exists many realities. The human animal is so unique and strangely true. Try remembering how a single reality is never possible, knowing a single reason is never the truth. In  reality we have no place giving advice on how to think.To substantiate this reality you need only one tool. 

The tool is passing open windows and even looking in!  This mighty power to heal is available to all.  We will never be capable of fully grasping our human potential so be accepting of that. Acceptance, so that we begin to take it easier on ourselves and fellow humans. After all every time we humans feel we finally have it sussed Bl@mM0! Life throw's a curve ball, oftentimes  we mistakenly beat ourselves  wishing we made better choices. Life can be  immensely painful and with no rule book we can only try minute to minute.   

Wait, we have no time or energy to waste on self inflicting guilt or misery! How can we end our self- loathing stop  masquerading it as 'sarcasm' or 'humour? 'Choosing to experience a life without fear and guilt is very powerful. Dajo  does not accept guilt or anger as reasonable, this way we stretch our own boundaries, not limit  by outdated  guilt trips.  An example of this would be if Dave cancelled out of Cirque Du Soliel or I cancel on his home cooking. ( last minute included)  there is no name calling, no degrading (we can do that anytime, lol!)  These kinds of friends are rare but don't need to be. 

Most of us would like to leave behind more than a carbon footprint, more like an indent; of ourselves. An indent I envision like the scoring of a trees bark.  carved into tree you are a record and reminder. Reminding me that we often take away to create. But what of the fibrous remains sculpted out?Its husky fiber drops to the ground it will wither away. Much like the carving we also want to leave something behind,don't we?   Growth through disintegration while you sharing your hearts secrets: giving order to the past finally blowing it up!!